Staying safe and respectful when you make contact
Updated 29 October 2026
Be clear and courteous
A good first message is short and respectful: a greeting, your general area, and the kind of time you are looking for. Clarity saves everyone time and sets a good tone.
Treat details as the advertiser's own
Contact details are published by the advertiser for people to reach them. Use them for that and nothing else. Never share someone's details elsewhere or contact them through channels they did not list.
Trust your judgement
Listings are provided as-is and we do not verify them. If something feels off, walk away. You are always free to choose a different listing or a nearby city.
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